Sunday, June 26th, 2011 at 5:40 pm
Last week Jaimlou and I wrote part 1 of Headiquette, which was a showcase of all the proper headiquette rules when Receiving dome. You can read that here in case you missed it. This week I decided to do it a little different for the rules of giving, I asked some of my female friends what they liked and disliked while getting eaten out, then I`m going to list the top 5 answers followed by my personal list of things that really does it for me while a female gives me oral.
“Rules of Giving” For Him (General Consensus)
While there’s no “right” method, but there are definitely some wrong methods…
Dont Go In For The Kill Right Away- Most girls had the complaint of their mate going in for the kill right away, in other words just going straight for the clit! Usually its really sensitive at first and doesn’t feel that great just jumping in attack style! ‘Torture’ or tease her by going around and around her pubic region without actually licking her.
Dont Be Predictable- I always said its good to keep a female on her toes to keep things interesting. Oral sex is the same. Switch it up, the worst thing is for someone to get bored of your head game.
Be Aware Of Your Surroundings-The other complaint most females had was that while getting eaten out their mate neglected other body parts. One girl said “whenever I am about to cum the area between my mons and belly button starts to tingle, and if a man puts his hands there and gently massages it with his fingers it makes me squirt.” See, being aware of your mates body can make things so much better (inner thigh stroking, booty caressing,etc) .
Finger Ninja- This one was also a touchy topic some females dont like being fingered while others loved it, it was basically 50/50 on this one. My advice is while eating her out try inserting the tip of a finger or two, if she flinches or pulls away. She hates it.
Suck It Or Not?- This one also depends on your mate, some females like this and others dont, while going at it for a while and you feel like its time to switch it up start to introduce the Clitoral Sucking. Careful, you have made her bud hypersensitive now and some will never like it sucked, but man you should hear the reaction to clit sucking if they like it.
-So in theory most females usually share the same opinions on what makes a great oral experience. The last two are all up to the female, but I know there are guys out there that will never eat out a female or admit to it, but if you`re doing it do it right!
“Rules of Giving” For Her (Mike Stylezz)
Hummer- Ladies, the humming technique feels awesome, what is it exactly? Well while doing your thing hum a song, what this does is cause a vibration, so now you`re definitely multitasking! Trust me your man will thank you for it!
Get Into It- There is nothing worse than a female acting like shes in rush to get it over with. That sucks. Act like you love it, moan and act like its turning you on. Say sexy sh*t. One girl told me “I love the way your cum tastes”. That had me gassed for life!!!! The next time I ask “So girl how does this d*ck taste?” you already know how to reply.
Dodge Ball- When giving brains dont dodge the balls. When used properly this can bring great pleasure. This comes with a warning though, gentle massaging feels great. Squeezing does not. Its actually the best way for you to ruin the experience.
Assist- I actually prefer girls using the hands to assist while doing it, it makes the mouth feel way more tighter but from my experiences, tongue rings really don’t make a difference at all. I had many girls with tongue rings and the worst thing is when they try to stick that tongue ring in the urethea (or the hole of your penis for the less informed). As a matter of fact leave the urethra alone in general please!
Clean It Up- I dont like messy girls so clean up your messes, in other words swallow it! Nothing screams sexy like a girl that swallows without question! In other words she likes you that much thats she willing to bare the discomfort for your satisfaction. Thats boss as hell.
-In conclusion with both parts of Headiquette to inform you of how to get down with the get down. There should be no reason to be known as a lame duck in the head game. Until Next time keep it sexy and keep it safe!